Do you think that you had found your perfect girl, especially one from Thai disco? She tells you she is so obsessed with you, miss you everyday and can't live without you?

Think twice, my friend. A kind piece of advice will be, give it up before it was all too late for any act of remedy.

No, I'm not saying that Thai girls will not like you or anything like these, but it will take a rare girl that you know from Thai disco to do so. Why would I say that? Been there, done that. Definitely not trying to be country-ist.

Cant say I'm that experience as to give a piece of advice to anyone, but i have definitely think like any of you, Thai disco-er out there, probably eating dinner now, getting ready for a good night at any of the Thai Disco in Singapore to find your GIRL. I too, thought that i have found my true love and even make plans for my future. Thought of marriage with a Thai girl? Forgive me if i laughed about it, or even at you. No, they ain't that into you. Probably just want to get out of their lives and have someone to take care of them so they can live in ease without any trouble.

I strongly recommend this book called "Private Dancer", by Stephen Leather. It's a thriller no doubt, but it is depicted in a way whereby it gives a lot of views and opinions of the girl, the guy, and their friends. So from the book, you know how the customer thinks (which is YOU), and most important, you will learn about the girls' mentality and their working environment. A extra note especially to those who have NOT been to Thailand or any of the "official" Thai Disco in Thailand, you just got to read this!

The story fully tells you their lives, why they do this etc. In fact, after I had finished reading I realised a lot of us (customers) share the same mentality. You think she is different, you think she is special, you think she is true to you, that she will never lie and most important, she really loves you. NO! Please just go and read the book. You can easily get it off online if you are unwilling to buy the book (same as me). The book had been rejected by publishers due to the unique storyline which is apparently different from what the author always wrote.

Learn, and don't get fooled. I have been going to places like these for almost a year and now I realised, it's a game whereby you will never win, NEVER. You may have thought you read the book by Neil Strauss, "The Game", and you can win those girls out there? You may try your skill and luck, but I doubt you will hardly win them, as these game belongs to them.

Think you bed the girl, so the girl's feeling for you is real? I can tell you my friend bed umpteen number of them, with no strings attached. I'm not saying they are prostitutes. No, I respect them for what they do, but I think it's relatively true that sex is almost nothing.

In fact, I respect them for what they do. Think about it. A girl, as young as probably 18, have to leave home to work like these to earn money for the family so that the family can live with ease. I truly respect, for I can't do that.

Not trying to deny anything, I'm kinda slipping into a depression right now, due to these reasons. I'm apparently too obsessed with a girl I thought was the girl for me, and now, look at me! Broke, penny-less, hopeless and all.

Have you try waking up in the middle of night at 2 am, and lost sleep till 5am? I woke up cos I had a bad dream about her, worry too much, shivered through the entire night and occasionally on the verge of breaking into tears. And guess what, I gotta work for the next day. I go to work, shut myself up as though I got an office of my own. Talk to nobody, and nobody can get me to chat.

I'm losing it, seriously.

So people out there, be smart, don't be a retard. Old people, yes go ahead and attempt to buy a young Thai wife. Young asses like me, think twice. Think you are too rich and have abundant wealth so you can throw all your savings on them, go ahead. I will encourage another me. (: